Just A Moment Of Clarity….Perhaps?


I’m a stage in life in which a moment of clarity is taking place and everything I’ve learned about myself is great. One of the greatest quotes that I’ve heard as of lately is this:  “If you love what you do, you’ll never work a day in your life.” That quote is about as good as the organic popcorn that I am snacking on now. It’s amazing, right?

Lately, I’ve been on a path of discovering who I am. My entire life, while being able to do what I want, has always been based on doing what others feel is “best” for me. Going on those notions while at times were great, have also not been the best.  Life is too short to not take chances, to feel unhappy and most importantly regret taking chances when chances could have resulted in a positive change.

I don’t expect people to understand what I am going through in life, nor do I actually want to tell them because people are judgmental. I understand that. I’ve been there at times, however, I would never tell someone who they are making a mistake. What works for you, may not be what works for me. Realizing that you aren’t utilizing yourself to your fullest potential is going to stunt your growth in so many ways.

Real Talk
Real Talk

Some people don’t think that I’m making the right decisions about my next moves in life. I respect that. Maybe some people don’t think I’m talented or smart enough to do other things. Your opinion and I’ll “respect” that. Whatever decisions I make on my life and future, well their decisions that I have to make without someone trying to hold influence in a life that doesn’t belong to them. Sometimes not being in a situation to really think about things is the best way to really understand a situation.

More To Come As This Chapter Unfolds…….

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"Most Likely To Be Ambivert" is the best way to describe me. Approaching 30 with kindness and hoping she does the same. Boston based hair stylist, best friend, wardrobe consultant, student of the world, etc., Welcome!

4 thoughts on “Just A Moment Of Clarity….Perhaps?”

  1. A very honest observation, my friend, and one of the many reasons that I admire and respect you! As one of my many mentors once shared with me: “We don’t all HAVE to walk “hand-in-hand” but simply RESPECT one another’s situation.” Much love and naked hugs! 🙂


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